SELF DEVELOPMENT

Self development is developing our own personality or ability by ourselves. For living a wonderful life that we desire. We need to improve all certain skills, habits etc. Actually, self development is not something which is attained in one day. It is a process, a Continuous process that takes many days and months. Development may be at different zones, it may be associated with emotional, physical or spiritual and so on.

Hard work, charity, helping, overcoming struggles, honesty, social relationships and many things are essential in self-development. Out of those I'll share two areas which I think as much important one in our self development.

DECISIONS :

Learn to make decisions by your own. The basic difficulty in taking own decisions is fear. The fear is created by the question or confusion “What If my decision makes a wrong out come?!”. To overcome this, First -Don’t worry about the whole process or a ending or the outcome that your decision will make. Instead of that Focus on the next single step. This will help you a lot in making decisions. Other things we look here is

Prefer your own thought.

Listen to yourself.

You should be clearly determined about what you want.

Trust yourself.

Once you make a decision then never doubt about it.

Work hard for the positive outcome

Learn from mistakes.

Decision making helps us in development of our mental ability, it helps us to trust ourselves which is very much needed to be successful.

PLANNING:

Everything works out better , when we do it in a planned way. Planning is very much important in self development. Importance of planning can be understood by the following simple example. Let us say, our goal is to go on a trip. If we want to go on a trip. In whole it looks like just reaching a destination and returning. But when we observe it closely, it will include many little things like packaging, transportation, food arrangements, getting clear map of routes. In order to enjoy the good trip, planning of the trip inclusive of the above mentioned small things are important. This is how planning plays a role in everyday life. At starting implement your planning in small activities or tasks. Then try to get things done in a planned way. Then automatically you will be able to do and follow planning in your daily day routine. Planning contributes self development greatly by helping us to know our progress, to manage time, to complete tasks etc...

And here I finally conclude by mentioning a small tip for a happy life.

Live in the present.

The first thing that everyone dream about their life is happiness. And for most of us, the ultimate goal of a life is satisfaction. Live in the moment. Enjoy every second. Instead of facing life as a struggle. Try to learn things that every second tends to teach you. Try to explore something in every moment. Always develop some curiosity towards each seconds.